Article: The End of Violent, Simplistic, Masculinity

by Thomas Page McBee

“People are saying, ‘Why don’t we scrap the concept of masculinity all together and let people be whoever they want to be, just leave it totally open’,” Gomez says. “I think that’s great, but a 14-year-old who grows up in a hyper-machismo household surrounded by highly homophobic peers, and his only two models of masculinity are like his worship of Lil Wayne and his abusive uncle, it’s not very useful to tell that kid, ‘Yo, just forget about the box, man. Be whoever you are.’ If you don’t give him any counter-narratives, that’s actually not giving him any options.”

Advertisements

Leave a Reply

Fill in your details below or click an icon to log in:

WordPress.com Logo

You are commenting using your WordPress.com account. Log Out / Change )

Twitter picture

You are commenting using your Twitter account. Log Out / Change )

Facebook photo

You are commenting using your Facebook account. Log Out / Change )

Google+ photo

You are commenting using your Google+ account. Log Out / Change )

Connecting to %s