“Malia and Sasha, they have friends whose parents are same-sex couples. There have been times where Michelle and I have been sitting around the dinner table and we’re talking about their friends and their parents and Malia and Sasha, it wouldn’t dawn on them that somehow their friends’ parents would be treated differently,” – President Barack Obama
This is how minds open folks. If you can’t bring yourself to rationalize it to your children, you need to think it over. This is called ‘evolving’, not ‘flip-flopping’.